Want to be heard but dont want to listen do you???

So So So sick of being there for other ppl... Pat on the back...trying to understand them for the good they have....Being honest with them....etc etc etc...And KNOWING they have not listened to a thing I have said about myself....That is sooo sad and such self centered nature and I do NOT like it at all...I don't need it in my life and wont deal with the selfishness anymore...How shallow of a person can you be to only hear things about yourself and NOT take the time to listen and return the favor someone does for you....I'm done with it!!!